When family members are worried about a loved one’s substance use, they often do the wrong things. They enable the problem without realizing it, thinking they’re being loyal and supportive. They’re making things worse, but they don’t realize it, because it feels like they’re doing the right thing. It feels good.
Are you struggling to make sense of the lies, excuses, and rationalizations your addicted loved one keeps repeating? You don’t have to accept their false narrative. There is a better solution.
I feel like people are ganging up on me–even my family and friends. Everybody tells me I need to go to treatment. They tell me I’m out of control. But I still have a good job, and my kids still love me (even though they live with my ex). I’m not lying in the gutter. The truth is, vodka is my best friend. It’s not judgy, it’s reliable, and it’s legal. I just wish everybody would get off my back.
How to use love to break denial and get your beloved alcoholic into treatment. Fr. Bill W interviews Jeff Jay on the Love First intervention process.
When family members are concerned about a loved one’s alcohol or other drug use, they often do the wrong things.
How to handle the ups and downs of early recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. Perseverance in action.
Jeff Jay was seen on CNN discussing addiction and the family. Hosts Briana Keiler and Boris Sanchez interviewed Jeff…
Alcohol and drug intervention was the subject of an in-depth interview with Dr. Taz. Jeff and Debra Jay shared specific strategies families can use to help their addicted loved one accept treatment.
Debra Jay’s best-selling book, It Takes a Family, is now available as an audiobook.
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Change is necessary, they say, but sometimes I just don’t like it.
Clinical intervention training in the Love First model. Five days with Jeff and Debra Jay, in person.
He was only drinking and smoking weed, but he had terrible consequences.
Alcoholism is a thief because it takes so much from us mentally, physically, and spiritually. It is cruel thief.
