When family members are worried about a loved one’s substance use, they often do the wrong things. They enable the problem without realizing it, thinking they’re being loyal and supportive. They’re making things worse, but they don’t realize it, because it feels like they’re doing the right thing. It feels good.

Are you struggling to make sense of the lies, excuses, and rationalizations your addicted loved one keeps repeating? You don’t have to accept their false narrative. There is a better solution.

When family members are concerned about a loved one’s alcohol or other drug use, they often do the wrong things.