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No More Letting Go

“An exDebra Jayciting, cutting-edge book that will inspire families to know and act from a place of courage and power—allowing them to step outside the shadow of addiction, reclaim their lives, and effectively intervene with their loved ones.”
Claudia Black, author of It Will Never Happen to Me

“Passionate, original, and thought-provoking, No More Letting Go is a must-have book for families and friends of addicted people. This book will save lives.”
Katherine Ketcham, coauthor of Beyond the Influence

"A powerful call to action...zero tolerance for untreated addiction. Debra Jay provides a clear, gentle and compassionate path based on love and respect."
Jerry Moe, National Director of Children's Programs, Betty Ford Center

“Poignant and impactful, this scientifically-based book will bring healing and life to many families.”
Barbara Krantz, M.D., Chief of Medical Services, The Hanley Center

“A wonderful, compassionate, and hopeful book about one of modern life’s most baffling and powerful disorders: addiction.”
Robert L. DuPont, M.D., author of The Selfish Brain

"...Jay has written a landmark book about action. As in Love First, she emphasizes that alcoholics and drug addicts do not have to hit rock bottom before they can get sober. Action, she writes, is the key to unlocking the cycle of destruction, and those whose lives are out of control do not have to want help to get help.

"Bringing a holistic approach to intervention and treatment, she shows how the minds, bodies, and spirits of alcoholics and drug addicts are intertwined and explores assumptions, emotions, thought processes, and physiological changes (particularly those of the brain). Written primarily for the families of drug and alcohol abusers, this logically arranged and poignantly written book is an essential part of any public library collection; with an extensive list of resources for treatment and recovery." -Library Journal (starred review), Melody Ballard


Debra Jay is a noted author and lecturer whose best-selling book Love First helped revolutionize the field of intervention. She has been a frequent guest on the Oprah Winfrey Show.

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This book has started a quiet revolution, showing families how to break the cycle of enabling, so they can get their loved ones into treatment.

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